Flower meanings come from tradition and vary between cultures. They can help you choose, but the family will value the gesture far more than the symbolism.
Common funeral flowers
Flower
Traditional associations
Lily
Peace, purity and the restored innocence of the soul; white lilies are a classic funeral flower
Rose
Love and respect; meaning often follows color
Carnation
Remembrance and affection; long-lasting in arrangements
Chrysanthemum
Used widely for funerals; in some European and Asian countries it is associated specifically with mourning
Orchid
Enduring love; often sent as a living plant
Gladiolus
Strength of character and sincerity
Hydrangea
Heartfelt emotion; often used in softer, garden-style arrangements
Forget-me-not
Remembrance
Colors
Color
Traditional associations
White
Reverence, peace, innocence
Red
Love, respect, courage
Pink
Gratitude, admiration, gentleness
Yellow
Friendship; also used for celebrations of life
Purple and lavender
Dignity and respect
Blue
Peace and calm
Choosing with meaning
Choose the person’s favorite flowers or colors.
A plant can symbolize continuing life and lasts longer.