How To Choose an Urn for Ashes

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The “best” urn is the one that fits your plans: where the remains will be kept, whether they will be shared or scattered, and your budget. This guide walks through each decision. We have not tested individual products, so we focus on what to look for.

1. Start with the plan for the remains

PlanWhat to look for
Keep at homeAny durable material; a secure lid; a design you’ll be comfortable seeing daily
Columbarium nicheExact niche dimensions from the cemetery
Cemetery burialWhether the cemetery requires an urn vault
ScatteringA scattering tube or simple temporary container; perhaps a keepsake
Water burialA biodegradable water urn
Sharing among familySeveral keepsake or small urns
Travel by airA container that passes airport X-ray (wood, plastic or composite)

2. Get the size right

Use about 1 cubic inch per pound of body weight. Most adults need a standard urn of about 200 cubic inches. Use the urn size calculator.

3. Choose a material

  • Metal (brass, aluminum, steel): durable and widely available; heavy; may not clear airport X-ray.
  • Wood: warm appearance, often engravable; travel-friendly.
  • Ceramic and porcelain: artistic designs; fragile.
  • Stone and marble: heavy and durable; typically higher priced.
  • Biodegradable (paper, salt, sand, plant fiber): for burial in soil or water.
  • Glass: decorative; best for keepsakes kept indoors.

4. Personalization

Engraving, photo panels and custom designs usually add cost and time. Order early if the urn is needed for a service.

Price ranges

Urns range from inexpensive temporary containers to handcrafted pieces costing hundreds or more. Our funeral cost calculator uses general ranges of about $50 to $150 for a basic urn, $150 to $400 mid-range, and $400 to $1,500 premium. You may buy an urn anywhere; the funeral home may not charge you a fee for using it.

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Arranging a cremation?

If you are still making arrangements, the funeral home can show you its urn options and explain what is included.