Funeral Guest Books and Memory Books

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A guest book records who came to pay their respects. Later, many families find it one of the most comforting keepsakes from the service.

What to look for

  • Layout. Columns for name, address and a short message make thank-you notes easier to send.
  • Size. Estimate attendance; most books list a number of signature lines. Order extra pages or a second book for large services.
  • Cover. Many books allow a photo or the person’s name on the cover.
  • Pen. A pen with archival ink that won’t smear.

Many funeral homes include a register book in their packages; ask before buying one.

Memory books and memory cards

Some families add cards where guests write a favorite memory. The cards can go in a box or be bound into a memory book later. They are especially meaningful for children and grandchildren.

Online guest books

Funeral home websites often host an online obituary with a guestbook, so people who cannot attend can share condolences.

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